The long and winding road

The long and winding road

The long and winding road
That leads to your door
Will never disappear
I’ve seen that road before
It always leads me her
Lead me to your door

The wild and windy night
That the rain washed away
Has left a pool of tears
Crying for the day
Why leave me standing here
Let me know the way
Many times I’ve been alone
And many times I’ve cried
Any way you’ll never know
The many ways I’ve tried

But still they lead me back
To the long winding road
You left me standing here
A long long time ago
Don’t leave me waiting here
Lead me to your door

But still they lead me back
To the long winding road
You left me standing here
A long long time ago
Don’t leave me waiting here
Lead me to your door

Lyrics above written by Paul McCarthney of the world popular and famous musical group,the Beatles in the 1970’s.

It is in my opinion these meaningful lyrics speak of a spiritual tone and could be a reminder of a spiritual seeker on a long and winding road,like all of us on a pilgrimage into the self,whether we are conscious of it or not.

And where is this long and winding road leading to?
….…towards the door of our hearts into finding the absolute truth.
Here the seeker is pleading not to be left waiting outside the door and asking to be led to the way back in.

How long we have forgotten to get back on track,the many,many times we felt lost and lonely,left abandoned in the dark and afraid,cried and tried……..we have gone wayward along our life’s journey with a myriad of distractions but still we remember somehow that there is a place of refuge to come home to….to our true self,our original being of pure clear light of consciousness.

Along this long and winding journey home,we would have fallen in love,gone through lots and lots of heartbreaks(not only romantically but from the people who have been allowed in our lives),deaths,births,tragedies,triumphs,sadness,joys,success and failures,riches and poverty,losses and gains…..we would have learned a tremendous amount of lessons of life and we would have taught lessons to others as well(knowingly or unknowingly).

During this walk up the road,it will not be all a straight path or smooth easy travels,there will be rocky patches,muddy puddles,thick jungles to cut through but more complex is the sudden stop at crossroads,a time of needing further directions,to make decisions and a feeling of being overwhelmed with regrets,doubts,overcomed by a frenzy of fear and desperation,perhaps even impatience to reach a destination,a goal.We face many temporary,testing blockages,hindrances and obstacles,with faith and true purpose,we keep treading on.

What do we do at the crossroads encountering four directions,which road do we choose to keep continuing on?

In the event of facing a crossroad……we simply choose any direction! What ever road we take it will be a step forward to a clearer vision,a step to experience,a chance to learn and grow.The relieving and comforting reminder is that the road will never disappear,it is always open till we have come home to ourselves.Even after many deviations,diversions and divergence we come again to merge with the road leading home.There is truly no shortcut on this journey,the path will be as it will be!

The worse is to let the fear keep us trapped in that location or situation without being open and courageous to venture on…..without venturing,how do we know whats true and how do we experience our inner capabilities of strength,courage,wisdom and be open to resiliency.

From every hurdle jumped and accomplished along this road,doors will be closing behind and new doors opening,in the end,we are only truly learning to let go,putting down every tool,accessory,baggage,burdens that we have carried along.The road eases and walking becomes effortless.

This journey may take a long time to traverse on,it may be rigorous and ardous but it is not an impossible task to undertake!

What will become of us on this spiritual quest?
…..Aware!,Awake! and Conscious!……

The door opens to possibilities and freedom
To those who are unafraid to walk through it
And experience the Unknown!


Coming to a crossroad of life

When life takes us to a crossroad and we are standing there right in the middle of four directions,what do we do?We feel stucked,indecisive and overwhelmed……any direction taken will be a step forward,a step to experience,a chance to learn and grow.

The worse is to let the fear keep us trapped in that location/position without being open to venture into new pastures…..without venturing,how do we know whats true and how do we experience our inner capabilities of strength,courage,wisdom and be open to resiliency.

Seeing without from within

When I see thru the eyes of Love, I see no enemies…
When I see thru the eyes of Peace, I learn to forgive and let go of past wrondoings……..
When I see thru the eyes of charity,I cultivate understanding and respect for the helpless and hurting………..
When I see thru the eyes of Joy,my heart flutters with laughter to bring comfort and ease………
When I see thru the eyes of Mercy and Forgiveness,I admit my own mistakes and that of others………..
When I see thru the eyes of Patience, I come to surrender being in the moment to learn and accept………..
When I see thru the eyes of Trust……everything becomes an experience without resistence and denials………….
When I see thru the eyes of Humility,I allow myself the courage and strength to be opened to possibilities…………..
When I see thru the eyes of Awareness,,I see myself One with the whole of creation.


“Compassion asks us to go where it hurts, to enter into the places of pain, to share in brokenness, fear, confusion, and anguish. Compassion challenges us to cry out with those in misery, to mourn with those who are lonely, to weep with those in tears. Compassion requires us to be weak with the weak, vulnerable with the vulnerable, and powerless with the powerless. Compassion means full immersion in the condition of being human.”
― Henri J.M. Nouwen

How beautifully profound Henri Nouwen speaks on compassion………….he is speaking of ourselves,as we each one also suffer the same consequences,,brokenness,anguish,confusion,vulnerabilities, hurts,feeling weak and lonely and grieving.When we relate with another;s pain ,we touch the core of our own human heart,we pierce thru our conscience and raise our consciousness to where we can live authentically and in truth of connectedness to all beings,no one is inferior or superior!………. We learn to understand and be understood,we learn not to aggravate another,we learn to cultivate kindness and respect for our own suffering and that of others….we can embrace ourselves in loving awareness and be human.Sometimes compassion is conveyed to via the inner awakening of Silence……………………………

What the world needs Now is love sweet love……

What the world needs now is Love….…

What the world needs now is love, sweet love
the only thing that there’s just too little of
What the world needs now is love, sweet love
No, not just for some but for everyone
Lord, we don’t need another mountain
There are mountains and hillsides enough to climb
There are oceans and rivers enough to cross
Enough to last ’till the end of time
What the world needs now is love, sweet love
It’s the only thing that there’s just too little of
What the world needs now is love, sweet love
No, not just for some but for everyone

Well I think most of us must have heard this song back in the 60s(1965) lyrics above by Hal David and music by Burt Bacharach first recorded and sung by Jackie Deshannon. There are also tons of love songs since forever till now that we mght be familiar with! I like this one in particular because the lyrics point to the NOW……’what the world needs NOW is love sweet love!’…….it is saying nothing else matters right now but love,we don’t need anymore mountains to climb,there already are too many of them(,probably meaning too many other distractions enough to create more problems and messes in life).

Sitting in quiet contemplation,I see with the eye of my heart ……the subtle and horrendous suffering around the home vicinity,environment and the world! ….especially so I hear by word of mouth and self witnessing of people near and dear and those who are not ‘happy’ in/with life sitautions.My heart beats out in compassion for all………my own too!

What is most disheartening to witness and know of in truth is the uncaring,unfeeling,unloving,unfriendly attitudes of family members behaving towards each other! Most of us must have heard of this saying….’charity begins at home’,with loved ones and then from that unity goes out into the world.But how much do we see the truth of disharmony from the ‘home’……….extending outwards into the world!

What did Jesus say on love.…”but I say unto you, love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them who persecute you”

Similarly the Buddha also said.…”hatred is never appeased by hatred but by love alone,hatred is appeased”

So why I ask myself if these enlightened teachers of the past and present taught so eloquently and belovedly on love thousands of years before, how is it that there is still so much strife,hatred, fighting and animosity consistently encircling around and within us since time immemorial?Why is it so easy to be affected and influenced by negative habits and traits of others that it gets rubbed on upon us.The questions is why is it so hard to practice goodness and kindness and charity and concern for each other starting with ourselves first?

We see so much of the unhappy home,at the workplace, racism, anger and terrorism around the globe,’big fishes eating and taking advantage of the little ones’,bullying at schools,sexual abuse and slavery of children and adults,starvation and poverty strickened countries,power hungry and corrupt government,businesses/corporations as well as religious institutions,etc.etc.etc.We can even notice strangers along the streets,restaurants or in the shopping malls behaving inconsiderately,unattentively to each other,yes very prevalent is the phone devices in their hands,the immature cultivation of fantasy and fictional follies of the world…….even amongst loved ones,friends and close associates we act disrespectfully and brutishly…..…

We have the power to change the world and bring peace with the love we already are within us yet we go on proving otherwise,pretending to live superficially, recklessly, carelessly and ignorantly….allowing ourselves to be toyed with the ego-centric ways of the world………………

I sit and ponder in dismay…what is the world becoming to and whats to happen to the younger generation of kids, if adults don’t nourish themselves with love and flow into the direction of clear consciousness….how would they impart and teach their children by outpouring examples of the wonder and goodness of love?

Love is innately within each being, it needs to be put to the test, for us to face the fiercest of storms and come out afloat peacefully, lovingly forgivingly and without conditions,judgements,critical assessments of oneself and others……….we need to be tested in order to experience and witness the authencity of love.We need to empower ourselves with courage to move in the direction of positive actions to witness the love within us! ………..’actions speak louder than words!’

It is not easy to love and bless our enemies(which could be the ones as close as our spouses, lovers, children, friends,colleagues,etc..).
Just see how easy it is to get annoyed and snap back in defense at another and then a full blown tension erupts over trivial uncalled for matters leading to unecessary anger, resentments and ill-feelings………….where does all these agitation arise…if we could ponder here a little…..

Why do we feel it hard to love our enemies(those whom we feel have made or is making our lives miserable).To begin with, it might seem hard enough to feel love or embrace ourselves in compassion,when we feel inadequate, insecure,needing attention ourselves, protective and obsessed with that‘what belongs to me only’kind of attitude.So how then could/would we genuinely generate love for others,worse still,how to love those whom we think are the cause of our unecessary hardships and annoyances!

Why then, if all spiritual teachers/masters are saying that love lies inherent within us, why do we feel devoid of it and are hankering for it elsewhere,outside of ourselves?

If we don’t find time to be with ourselves and cherish that time alone to love and embrace ourselves in compassionate understanding and respect,how would/could we find time to be with others and care for them?

Love begins with the fearless ‘battle’ to look into our hearts and find it there!Love is never to be found outside of ourselves…………